I have no idea if you're a Southerner or not. If you are, you already know this.
If you're not:
All violent cultures (The Old South, Feudal Japan, Elizabethan England, some of today's Middle Eastern cultures) have a strong system of formal manners and shades of expression that permit one to say nasty things indirectly without actually saying it in such a way as to get oneself skewered or one's ass shot off.
For a full explaination of heart blessing, see http://www.dixiebass.com/dixiebass/bless.htm
My family FEARS it when I interject "bless his heart" into a phrase.
A Cultural Lesson
Date: 2005-02-02 04:04 pm (UTC)If you're not:
All violent cultures (The Old South, Feudal Japan, Elizabethan England, some of today's Middle Eastern cultures) have a strong system of formal manners and shades of expression that permit one to say nasty things indirectly without actually saying it in such a way as to get oneself skewered or one's ass shot off.
For a full explaination of heart blessing, see http://www.dixiebass.com/dixiebass/bless.htm
My family FEARS it when I interject "bless his heart" into a phrase.
no subject
Date: 2005-02-02 08:28 pm (UTC)Gimme the raw info any day. But then, I was raised by New Englanduhs.